Okcupid dating persona playboy
Believe me, you can go out with a guy who is listed as "less kinky" and still end up having him ask you to let him watch you pee on the second date. )"More dominant/less dominant" (aka "the variable Elle unsurprisingly pulls for dominant on rather consistently): Seems to be based on just one or two questions about whether you like your partner to be more shy/submissive, balanced, or dominant, and whether you consider yourself to be dominant."More/less experienced in life:" My guess is this has to be based largely on the amount of stupid shit you've done and/or the amount of substances you've inflicted upon your poor fucked up brain and body.
Not a great measure of how sheltered someone has been."More/less friendly to strangers:" Measure of how much you reply and/or how much you initiate conversations, as far as I can tell."More/less laid back:" This has to be an absolutely bullshit metric, or else the women on OKC are all really terrible hot messes.
But due to biology, I can be that 45-year-old guy who is hooking up with 27-year-old women while 45-year-old women turn into angry spinsters.” These are not my sentiments, but we do see them occasionally expressed in the comments section below, usually by dorky guys without much game who play the “biology” card early and often. Using data from 200,000 people on Ok Cupid, Walsh takes on these men who overestimate their appeal to younger women and gives them a good old-fashioned scientific smackdown, concluding: By this unbiased calculation of actual data, the male and female of the species exhibit the same sexual market value.
The OKCupid chart has good, reliable information for both sexes.
I’m going to stick with that premise, since I think Ok Cupid’s data skews young.
In other words, while a 22-year-old may be hot, most 41-year-old quality men would never actually date or marry one.
You will never be hotter than you are at 22, so plan accordingly.
It’s important to recognize that some men display a motive for artificially elevating the SMV of aging males, so ignore any wisdom characterized as “red pill.” In my own coaching materials, I always suggested that a woman’s peak was 27-30 in terms of her desirability to the most men, and that a man’s peak was 35-39.
Of course, your enemies are likewise certain and zealous, especially your exes and their therapists. In the short term, she’s someone virile who won’t sweat your imperfections. You’re careful, extra careful, because the last thing you want is to hurt anyone. master is EITHER number of sexual partners *or else* how long and/or often you've been in relationships (which are th two ways OKC decides to deem you 'experiened' or not). Gentle- kinda intuitive; depends how harshly you answer questions.I always come up "love."Additional info, in case anyone wanted to know (nobody does): I also have some of the "personality variables" figured out."Kinkier/less kinky:" It's not how much you say yes to, it's how *little* you say no to.Essentially, whether you’re a 3 or a 10 is not really your decision. Anyway, back to the original premise: I think we can agree in general that young women remain particularly appealing to men, even when it gets a bit creepy.I think we can also agree that, for whatever reason, older men seem have more dating options than older women.